Fishy Gift Giving

It was very hard to get up this morning. The cold, the dark, the warm, warm bed. The fact that i didn't get to sleep until way too late last night. But there are students who ned me. Well, they need the English i provide. Well, they need some of the - screw it. I'm going back to bed.

Just a couple more weeks of crazy busy and then i can relax a bit. Catch up on some stuff. Take the time to ZZzzz...

I received my winter gift from the head of GaiDai this weekend and we had some of it at diner last night. Salmon and capers! Good stuff. And since he is the unseen overlord of the university, there is fortunately no need for me to reciprocate (as there would be if there was a personal element to the relationship). It was very generous of him/them/the institution/whatever.

The tradition of winter gift giving in Japan, called お歳暮 ("oh-say-bo"), dates back quite a ways. One student informs me that it was actually brought over from China and involved the lunar calendar in some way. Nowadays it is done in teh first couple weeks of December. There is also a summer gift giving season called お中元("oh-choo-gen"), usually given in July. That one is often fruit or beer.

I like gifts. I like both the giving and the receiving. I don't, however, like all the obligation and rules. And, as with all things in Japan, there are oh so many obligations and rules. Ah well.

Slammin' Salmon!!












Symian is: could really use another four hours sleep.
Currently Reading: Oishinbo
Currently Listening: "See You" - Superfly
Kanji of the Day: お歳暮 ／　おせいぼ　／ winter gift

Nabe! and two desserts!

For our first nabe dinner of the season (well technically our second) we invited Tony and his friend over. The plan had been to play a little Nintendo Wii after dinner, burn off some of those calories, but the TV had other plans. Broken plans, broken TVs. Yargh.

Nabe (pronounced "nah-beh") is the best winter food. I love it. I look forward to it all summer and then in autumn we break out the hotpot and cook us up some veggies and what not.

I was up not too early and not too late and i made some french toast, as is becoming my Sunday custom and we enjoyed our nice morning together. Ulala was feeling much better but not tip-top so i let her rest until breakfast was ready.
Today was a beautiful clear day, after all the grey and rain of yesterday. So Ulala and i took the afternoon and wandered around Tsuruhashi and got some mochi-on-a-stick for dessert and some and some of the best kimchi you can get in Osaka. We didn't really need dessert since Tony brought apple pie (which was delicious).

A new TV has been in the pipeline for some months now, but i feel that tonight Ulala snapped and now we are in the home stretch. Now we just have to find the time to go comparison shopping. Truth be told, we have done so two or three times already but "there might be a sale soon" somehow always seems to curtail our plans and i get TV-blocked by the power of the irrational posing as rationality.

I'm leaning towards a Sony Bravia or a Sharp Aquos but those aren't based on anything more than passing research and commercials. Without Ulala i would probably just get whatever is shiniest.

We got some of these for dessert at a stand that we often pass on Sennichimae-dori:


Symian is: sad for his TV but happy for his filled belly.
Currently Reading: Oishinbo
Currently Listening: "Jesus Walks" - Kanye West
Kanji of the Day: 島　トウ／しま

Furuhata Ninzaburo

I was up a bit late but it's OK. It looked grey and rainy but then the sun broke through. later on.

TGIS - Saturday is my Friday and i can't believe what a busy week it was work-wise. Not so many extra lessons but just felt like i had no time whatsoever. Time. That thing that haunts me. Intangible poltergeist picking up pieces of my life and throwing them across the room.

Another plan cancelled was Marlon's Bonenkai (end-of-year party) which we were supposed to attend and which i had been looking forward to all week. When i got home Ulala informed me she was feeling ill. Not to worry. It isn't bird flu, swine flu or spider-monkey flu. All is well with tea, soup, and rest.

On a lighter note, we stayed home and watched TV. With what little free time i have had, i have been sitting down with Ulala and trying to watch some more Japanese TV. Since i can't abide most of the sheer crap that pollutes and assaults on an evening to evening basis from the airways and cables, we opt instead for DVD of series. Remember kids, watch what you choose, not what "they" choose. So we sometimes watch comedy (if it can be called that) and sometimes cop or mystery shows. I have started, at the recommendation of my Japanese teacher, to watch a show called Furuhata Ninzaburo (pictured). It's a mystery series about a super-smart but eccentric detective. Originality is not really a trait ever found in Japanese TV. Ever.

But alas, i found out too late that there are no subtitles. None. My Japanese is still sub-par so I usually watch with Japanese subtitles turned on so i can try and read along. There are no English subtitles usually, which is fine. But none whatsoever? Come on! You're leaving me in the verbal dark here. And in a show that is largely based on him explaining how he put all the clues together a la Holmes. Sheesh.

That leads me to my other complaint about the show. Unlike the majority of mystery programs i grew up watching (almost all American and some British), Furuhata Ninzaburo shows you the murder at the outset. Along with the murderer. Then you watch for an hour while he and the killer battle wits and he wins, showing you how clever he is. But i feel ripped off at not having the chance to try and figure it out along with him (or before, which is the challenge). I have no interest in the story because i already know the answer. My wife tells me that the pleasure for Japanese audiences comes from seeing how he figures it out. I guess i'll have to chalk that up to cultural differences and let it be. Meh.

Symian is: wondering what that guy said.
Currently Reading: Oishinbo
Currently Listening: "War With God" - Ludacris
Kanji of the Day: 表　／　ヒョウ／おもて／あらわ

Happy birthday, Hova.

Happy Birthday to rapper and entertainment mogul Jay-Z (Shawn Carter) from Brooklyn, NYC.
From rags to riches. Something I mentioned two years ago when i wished Mr Carter well. Since then he has released two more albums and had large success in the business arena and back in '08 he married Beyonce Knowles.
The reason i take the time to mention this person whom i have never actually met, is that his success in inspirational. From a bad situation with limited choices, he created a man and legend who now stands atop music history as king. When i have trouble in my own rather small life or when i doubt my capability to succeed, i think of Jay-Z and i play some of his better songs, most of which are about beating the odds and believing in himself.

"I don't run rap no more, I run the map." - Jay-Z (Blueprint III)





Symian is: kind of wishing he was in New York. Kind of.
Currently Reading: Oishinbo
Currently Listening: Jay-Z - The Blueprint III
Kanji of the Day: 投　トウ／な*げる　to submit, to deliver, to throw down

Thurzzzzday

a.m.:
so hard to get up this morning. pitch black outside. it will be like this at least until the end of January - as long as this school year continues at GaiDai...

the plan today: GaiDai, gym, study, Berlitz, home (where there is a rapidly filling e-mail inbox that needs my attention).

p.m.:
Later today the sky was SO blue. This picture doesn't begin to do it justice.
Remember to look up, people. But not all the time or you'll bump into stuff.




Symian is: eating breakfast in the dark a.m.
Currently Reading: Oishinbo
Currently Listening: Smoke on the Water - Deep Purple
Kanji of the Day: 度　／　ド／たび

A little dinner and a lot of dessert

Today was yet another "day off" of running around: Japanese lesson in the a.m. wherein i learned the old Japanese names of the months. December is "teacher-running-around month." I'll drink to that.

Then a lesson with Akiyo out in Itami. She actually did her homework! Our lessons are casual and fun so i don't mind the low pay or travel time but today went extra well for her and i think boosted her confidence in English. She said as much, and that this might encourage her to do more review between our bi-weekly sessions.

And then back downtown for a golf lesson. My back aches now since today we focussed on keeping my spine at a 30 degree angle. yowza. Some serious stretching is in order.

After that, it was a quick pass through home to change and head to dinner with my beautiful wife and our good friend Emi down the street in Tsuruhashi (Korea Town), where we had some elaborate version of chicken soup and, more importantly, an incredibly rich dessert at a famous little dessert place that Ulala tells me has been there since her Dad was in school.

This was dinner:



And THIS was dessert:




Today i left the house at 10:30 and got back at about 10:30. sheesh. But that is how i recharge.

Tonight i am planning a lesson for GaiDai tomorrow that is based on Canada (well, Canadian history, sort of). Nothing exciting, just some reading and discussion. If i teach this course again next semester i will try and infuse more Canadiana into it. This year was really just about getting my bearings and making sure i could cover all that was needed in the course curriculum.


Symian is: running and eating and teaching. Ouch.
Currently Reading: Oishinbo
Currently Listening: Global Underground - Plump DJs
Kanji of the Day: 都　／　ト／ツ／みやこ

Hello December,

My feelings toward you remain ambivalent. You are so festive yet you bring the cold grey of winter. You sneak it in while everyone is busy running around for the end of the year and thinking happy Christmas thoughts and distracted by pretty shiny things. And your days are too short. Work on that, will you?

Here in Osaka it is really still autumn-like. On my way to and from Tanpopo today, i took a couple pictures. One decidedly autumn-esque and one decidedly winter-esque.




No gym today, i decided, because i should try and study Japanese more. I've been lazy recently and i feel bad about it. Hard to balance study and gym and working two jobs. Meh.
New Years is coming up : Goal Season.

Symian is: enjoying the last few drops of autumn wine.
Currently Reading: Time Magazine article "The Decade From Hell"
Currently Listening: Green Day live in Tokyo
Kanji of the Day: 転　／　テン　／ころ*ぶ　to turn, rotate, change